Great idea on this post “is it OK to SWEAR in an interview“ from the folks at impacthiringsolutions.com
Which got me thinking is it ever OK swear in an interview? and I don’t mean the clever mnemonic from Impact Hiring. I’m talking about actually dropping the ‘F-bomb’!
The safe answer is “NEVER“, but it’s not always the right answer. There are times when it’s OK to swear and even use the f-bomb.
Got your attention now?
Here’s why, the interview is about three things:
- Can you do the job? – skills, experience, abilities etc…
- Will you do the job? – motivation etc
- Will you fit in? – values, attitude etc..
When it’s all said and done when two or more candidates are qualified for the job, the hiring decision comes down to how much they liked YOU. The real you.
Being able to build a rapport with the interviewer and being the most likeable person is more important than being the most qualified or able.
Being liked is about making a connection. So as you’re interviewing ask yourself, would it be OK to swear now? Have I got the measure of this person and the culture of the organization? Does swearing fit, is acceptable?
Obviously if the interviewer is cussin’ away then you have your answer.
Interviews are about building a rapport (oh, and answering some questions), and if that means the odd swear every now and again then go for it.
Then again if swearing is not your thing, clearly the company, however attractive the position, is NOT A FIT FOR YOU
Happy swearing hunting
Simon